Hot Tub Time Machine

I watched Hot Tub Time Machine yesterday.  OMG this movie is funny.  It is NSFW and if you don't like raunchy humor, you won't like it.  Otherwise, you will love it.  :o)

The premise of the movie is 4 guys whose lives really are in the toilet go on a vacation together and when they get in the hot tub, it takes them back to 1986.  They quickly realize they cannot change anything because of the The Butterfly Effect (Infinifilm Edition) .  But they just as quickly realize they want to have some fun and make some changes. They make a few changes, one of them stays behind in 1986, and they all live happily ever after.

I started wondering if I would want to make changes if I could go back.  And if I did make changes, would it completely change my life today.  Probably so.  I am buried under a mountain of student financial aid.  It's a 2nd mortgage.  I didn't get a lot out of my education, however, I did get a wonderful wife out of college.  If I changed the school and went to a community college, then the debt would be minimal.  But I would not have met B and we would not have a beautiful daughter.  I could have stayed with some earlier jobs and gone up in the company, but I would not have had the experience of preaching.  I could have stayed a preacher in the Methodist church and worked and plodded through it, but then I would not be at my current church which is so much better than any of the past churches we have been members of.

Life right now is not completely easy.  We really don't make it month to month and Peter gets robbed a lot to pay Paul.  But we have shelter that is air conditioned.  We have transportation. We have our health.  I have a wife who accepts all of me and I don't want to change any of the past and lose the present.

Blessings.

-Candi

Couples Time

I am a pastor at heart so I will post scriptures and other stuff related.  Also, I will write post about relationships as I have before about communication.  Well here I go again. 
First to the GG.  Your CD is watching your every reaction to figure out exactly what you think about the elephant in the room.  She is used to hiding this 7 layers down where no one can see her and now she is out.  Without meaning to, your facial expression or wording in a single sentence will destroy 2 days of good vibes between you.
Don't take this as me bashing on you.  I'm not.  It is what it is.  Just realize that you will probably have to supress more than you first realized.
To the CD.  Get the chip off your shoulder and BE with your GG.  Stop being a selfish prick (no pun intended) and realize they want to be a part of your lives (get it, HA).  Yes there are GGs that don't want to have anything to do with your fem side.  i'm not talking to or about them.  For those GGs who are accepting in whatever little or big way, give them props.  They are stepping out just as much as you are. 
If you want more specific advise, B and I are both more than happy to try and help. 

Blessings

-Candi

Tradng Parts part 2

So the last post asked medical science "Y U NO LET US TRADE PARTS".  There are many times we have said that B should have been a guy and (obviously) I should have been the girl.  Though I can tell you that I don't think either of us want to go full time the other way. 

After posting that funny pic, I started wondering how we could change parts.  And then I realized that we would have to be robots to do that.  Think about it.  The pussy is not an external part so to change it out, we would have to have a whole section.  Think about a naked Barbie (the doll not your friend).  The whole part between hips would need to come out.  Well if the guy was going to take that, his would need to come out too.
If you think a little more about it, that would need to happen anyway.  We could have some Doc Johnson strap-on attachments for the penis but that's not why you want it.  Those who want the penis, want it to be part of them.  Those who want the pussy want it to be part of them.  And I'm sure they want it for sexual fun too.  To get the sensory experience, it would need to be a true part of you.

Far from just the transgender scene, changing out parts (easily) would be awesome for medicine.  Cancerous parts can be swapped out.  We can just print a new part if you need it.  If you could trade parts on demand, would you do it (hell yes).   From interacting, most crossdressers would do this in a heartbeat.  It won't be in our lifetime, but maybe sometime in the future.

-Candi

Trade Parts

Sometimes a pictures is worth a thousand words.  B and I feel like this sometimes.

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