Hiding

I went to mom's house last weekend.  Had to do some work on the house.  Of course nobody there knows about Candi.  What sucks is when I forget to take the polish off my toe nails.  I did only have a clear coat on fingers so that was not a problem.  Unfortunately, the whole time I had to keep my socks or shoes on. 
Lesson learned. 

-Candi

Picture Time

Alex is the daughter of a girl in the CD group I am a part of.  She is going to school for photography and she just won a scholarship.  She is doing an exhibit in May of different girls in this group.  I went to her house and did some pictures.  Looking forward to the opening of the show. 
She also said she would do some couple pictures of me and B.  Just for that I started a Tumblr blog looking at poses and things to go with.  you can check it out here: http://brandyslover.tumblr.com/

-Candi

Male, Female, or Custom

Facebook has decided to make gender identity whatever you want.  This is great for the Transgender community.

http://www.foxnews.com/tech/2014/02/13/male-female-or-custom-facebook-announces-major-expansion-terms-to-identify/

Facebook's new gender options

Here is a list of new gender options Facebook is making available (for U.S. users only):
  Agender
  Androgyne
  Androgynous
  Bigender
  Cis
  Cis Female
  Cis Male
  Cis Man
  Cis Woman
  Cisgender
  Cisgender Female
  Cisgender Male
  Cisgender Man
  Cisgender Woman
  Female to Male
  FTM
  Gender Fluid
  Gender Nonconforming
  Gender Questioning
  Gender Variant
  Genderqueer
  Intersex
  Male to Female
  MTF
  Neither
  Neutrois
  Non-binary
  Other
  Pangender
  Trans
  Trans Female
  Trans Male
  Trans Man
  Trans Person
  Trans*Female
  Trans*Male
  Trans*Man
  Trans*Person
  Trans*Woman
  Transexual
  Transexual Female
  Transexual Male
  Transexual Man
  Transexual Person
  Transexual Woman
  Transgender Female
  Transgender Person
  Transmasculine
  Two-spirit

Lazy Crossdresser

I have not been out in a month.  Not for lack of wanting to, just stuff happens.  Christmas came.  I got sick.  Then my schedule changed.  I'm working days 8-5 now instead of evenings and I only get 2 days off instead of 3. 
I had plans to go karaoke on Monday night.  I told the girls before I got off work.  I got home about 6.  Then when I got into the bathroom to shave around 7, I decided to skip it.  Dallas is a drive, I'll get there at 9 or 930 and then won't leave until close to 12.  That will make Tuesday at work a pain.  Before I would sleep in on Tuesday since I was off.  Even if I was not off, I would not have had to go in until 11. 

In my best Yoda voice, "The Pink Fog is weak in this one, I see."

-Candi

Who Cares

Christmas

It's been a good Christmas time this year.  I have been off work (a lot) on vacation.  More than I expected.  Driving across Texas a few times.  The LGBT group I am a part of had a Christmas party.  That was so much fun.  We laughed and played games.  Jackie Bee is a wonderful host. 

I went to a CHIX concert.  It was a last minute thing and I should have stayed home after all.  Oh well.  Then of course I went to Monday night karaoke.  Planning to go again tomorrow night.

I wish you a very merry Christmas and a happy New Year.  Remember that Jesus was born to come into the world to bring a fallen people back into his loving arms.  It's not rules but a relationship.  Pass the love forward.

-Candi

Chest Hair

Before I was a crossdresser, I had chest hair.  Actually I had hair down to my waist.  I was a pastor at one time and my best friend used to joke about my cross of hair on my chest.  But I have been shaving it for a while.  In fact tonight was my weekly shave.  I ran my fingers through the long stubble that was there, and thought back.  I really can't remember what it was like having all that hair.
I know B is happy to snuggle on my chest now, as long as I keep it shaved.  Most girls hate to shave their legs.  As crossdressers, we shave a whole lot more.  And actually I like to shave my legs.  Yes it is somewhat a hassle, but I love the feeling after and I love the accomplishment. 
I like to look down and no see hair on my chest or my legs.  I like the feeling of sliding on pants or skirts or pantyhose after I shave.  I really like to rub my shaven legs on B.  I think I like the feeling better than she does. Now that the hair is gone, I don't see going back.

-Candi