Well I may have just lost my job. I can't blame it on the crossdressing either. Except for underdressing, I keep work and Candi separate. Even though my company is very liberal in their practices, it doesn't change how people themselves are.
One of my reps accused me of harassment. That I and others on my team make comments about women, gays, minorities, etc that offend her. It's a sad day when a crossdresser would be accused of derogatory comments toward gays and any other minority. But the charges are there and there is an investigation.
I pray it is shown I am clear and can return to work this week. It will be tough on my and my family if not. I really don't want to look for a new job when I am unemployed. I know that is stressful. Only time will tell now.
-Candi
Sunday, April 29, 2012
Thursday, April 19, 2012
Shaving My Legs
I shaved my legs last month to get ready for our anniversary weekend. This was the 1st time I had shaved my legs. They were really hairy. I have kept them shaved since then. By doing this, I have learned a few things...about myself and about shaving my legs.
1. I have really long legs. Also, under all that hair, they are really white.
2. Take your time. You have probably seen your wife or girlfriend speed through shaving her legs. That's because she has been doing it for YEARS. Same with make-up. You will not be able to take care of your girly business as fast as she does. Trust me. Also, the first few times might be an "experience" for you. It's a very feminine thing to shave your legs and as a crossdresser, it will "put you in the mood".
3. Your knees are sensitive. Be gentle because that will be where you get your first cut. The 1st time I shaved them, I cut my left knee. The 2nd time I was being so careful that I missed my knees altogether.
4. You know those commercials where the girls are shaving their legs in the shower. Well as with most advertising, it's BS. Your shower is not big enough for you to shave in. Your hot water heater is not big enough for you to shave in the shower. When you bend over and water is running up your nose, you will not be happy. When the shower washes off your shaving cream, you will not be happy. Do it in the bath tub. Oh...and wash out the bathtub when you are done.
5. Soak in the hot bath before beginning. Just like your face, you need the hairs to stand up and be soft to cut. The bath is an awesome place, and again....soaking will make you feel girly.
6. I go foot to thigh shave, but it's up to you. That will be the easiest. I know you should go WITH the grain, but oh well. Sue me. It works just fine.
7. Don't use a 5 week old razor on your body. If it's hard to cut your facial hair, change it out. They are cheap. And on that note, clean it after each stroke. The strokes on your face are short; maybe 2-3 inches. The strokes on your legs are 12-18 inches. If you don't shake that thing in the water really good after each stroke, it will clog quickly and be useless. You also need to clean it good at the end so you can use it again.
8. Your hair growth rate depends on you completely. I thought I would be shaving every week, especially since I have to shave my face every day or get a full beard in three. But for me, 2 weeks is tops. I like the feel and look so I touch and see every day and know if my hair is growing.
9. Use shaving gel. You can use soap, but that will dry out your skin so use shaving gel. It's $2 a bottle. Just like your razors, don't be a cheapskate. Buy the quad blade razors and a good gel. It looks expensive up front, but overall it's really not bad.
10. Go all the way to the crevice between your crotch and thigh. Don't leave hair on your thigh. Also, if you want to shave your crotch, go for it. The feel is amazing, until it starts growing out and then it itches like hell. Here is my recommendation for good looks and feel. Buy one of those electric beard groomers with a guide. I have a big one with 4 guides of different sizes. It's actually for all hair. Put the smallest guide on there and cut off all your pubic hair. Pull your balls tight and cut those long hairs there also. Put your leg on the sink and go for the back too. You will like this.
Also, if you have a girl in your life that gives blowjobs, she will appreciate this. Cut short, don't shave.
All girls are the same. At 1st she may not like it, then start to really like it when she rubs against it a few times. When she feels how smooth you are and that you are taking care of it, she will notice, even if she doesn't say so. B walked into the bathroom last week when I was shaving. She looked and didn't say a word but rubbed against me for a while in bed that night.
Lastly, pretty much no one will notice, unless you are always in shorts regularly and around acquaintances a lot. Everybody else won't give your legs a 2nd though. If yours are as white as mine, I recommend tanning. It is that time of year. Spray tanning is an option if you don't have time for outside. If you are in FtWorth, I know someone who makes housecalls for airbrush spray tanning. She does a great job and only charges $35. Send me a message if you want her information.
Blessings,
-Candi
1. I have really long legs. Also, under all that hair, they are really white.
2. Take your time. You have probably seen your wife or girlfriend speed through shaving her legs. That's because she has been doing it for YEARS. Same with make-up. You will not be able to take care of your girly business as fast as she does. Trust me. Also, the first few times might be an "experience" for you. It's a very feminine thing to shave your legs and as a crossdresser, it will "put you in the mood".
3. Your knees are sensitive. Be gentle because that will be where you get your first cut. The 1st time I shaved them, I cut my left knee. The 2nd time I was being so careful that I missed my knees altogether.
4. You know those commercials where the girls are shaving their legs in the shower. Well as with most advertising, it's BS. Your shower is not big enough for you to shave in. Your hot water heater is not big enough for you to shave in the shower. When you bend over and water is running up your nose, you will not be happy. When the shower washes off your shaving cream, you will not be happy. Do it in the bath tub. Oh...and wash out the bathtub when you are done.
5. Soak in the hot bath before beginning. Just like your face, you need the hairs to stand up and be soft to cut. The bath is an awesome place, and again....soaking will make you feel girly.
6. I go foot to thigh shave, but it's up to you. That will be the easiest. I know you should go WITH the grain, but oh well. Sue me. It works just fine.
7. Don't use a 5 week old razor on your body. If it's hard to cut your facial hair, change it out. They are cheap. And on that note, clean it after each stroke. The strokes on your face are short; maybe 2-3 inches. The strokes on your legs are 12-18 inches. If you don't shake that thing in the water really good after each stroke, it will clog quickly and be useless. You also need to clean it good at the end so you can use it again.
8. Your hair growth rate depends on you completely. I thought I would be shaving every week, especially since I have to shave my face every day or get a full beard in three. But for me, 2 weeks is tops. I like the feel and look so I touch and see every day and know if my hair is growing.
9. Use shaving gel. You can use soap, but that will dry out your skin so use shaving gel. It's $2 a bottle. Just like your razors, don't be a cheapskate. Buy the quad blade razors and a good gel. It looks expensive up front, but overall it's really not bad.
10. Go all the way to the crevice between your crotch and thigh. Don't leave hair on your thigh. Also, if you want to shave your crotch, go for it. The feel is amazing, until it starts growing out and then it itches like hell. Here is my recommendation for good looks and feel. Buy one of those electric beard groomers with a guide. I have a big one with 4 guides of different sizes. It's actually for all hair. Put the smallest guide on there and cut off all your pubic hair. Pull your balls tight and cut those long hairs there also. Put your leg on the sink and go for the back too. You will like this.
Also, if you have a girl in your life that gives blowjobs, she will appreciate this. Cut short, don't shave.
All girls are the same. At 1st she may not like it, then start to really like it when she rubs against it a few times. When she feels how smooth you are and that you are taking care of it, she will notice, even if she doesn't say so. B walked into the bathroom last week when I was shaving. She looked and didn't say a word but rubbed against me for a while in bed that night.
Lastly, pretty much no one will notice, unless you are always in shorts regularly and around acquaintances a lot. Everybody else won't give your legs a 2nd though. If yours are as white as mine, I recommend tanning. It is that time of year. Spray tanning is an option if you don't have time for outside. If you are in FtWorth, I know someone who makes housecalls for airbrush spray tanning. She does a great job and only charges $35. Send me a message if you want her information.
Blessings,
-Candi
Sunday, April 15, 2012
Nothing better
Nothing better than on a slow Sunday afternoon to sit in front of the computer surfing in my denim skit and a beautiful blue cami. It's fabulous.
-Candi
-Candi
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Continuing Daughter Adventures
So my adventures continue. As I stated before, B told our daughter the whole truth about Candi. Our teenager said that night to mom "you know the stuff we talked about earlier? I don't want to talk about it anymore." It's like having a 2nd wife, huh? ;o)
Well....She might want to talk about it now. I get off work at 2am. To unwind I like to sit in the living room and have a beer. I will surf a little on the Internet. Maybe watch a show in hulu or just online. Sometimes I will put a skirt and blouse on but many times I will put a nightie on. Well last night I put on B's long red satin nightgown.
This thing is gorgeous and feels awesome. Everyone else was asleep. I made some popcorn and started to get online. Well my daughter came out of her room. There I am in the recliner in the satin nightgown. I did the best thing I could....I acted like nothing was wrong. I didn't say anything different than I would at any other time. I offered to make her something to eat since she was not feeling up to par. After a 10 minute conversation, I was done with my beer. She went to bed and so did I.
B has not said if she brought it up to her. Our daughter is great. Eventually she may decide to be around Candi. If it doesn't happen it's not a big deal and I will not force it.
In my mind I think it will go like this...for a while she will not want to have anything to do with Candi. We will all go shopping and I will pick up something that is clearly NOT for B. From then on she will be giving me suggestions on what to wear as Candi. It's a thought (or maybe a dream).
-Candi
Well....She might want to talk about it now. I get off work at 2am. To unwind I like to sit in the living room and have a beer. I will surf a little on the Internet. Maybe watch a show in hulu or just online. Sometimes I will put a skirt and blouse on but many times I will put a nightie on. Well last night I put on B's long red satin nightgown.
This thing is gorgeous and feels awesome. Everyone else was asleep. I made some popcorn and started to get online. Well my daughter came out of her room. There I am in the recliner in the satin nightgown. I did the best thing I could....I acted like nothing was wrong. I didn't say anything different than I would at any other time. I offered to make her something to eat since she was not feeling up to par. After a 10 minute conversation, I was done with my beer. She went to bed and so did I.
B has not said if she brought it up to her. Our daughter is great. Eventually she may decide to be around Candi. If it doesn't happen it's not a big deal and I will not force it.
In my mind I think it will go like this...for a while she will not want to have anything to do with Candi. We will all go shopping and I will pick up something that is clearly NOT for B. From then on she will be giving me suggestions on what to wear as Candi. It's a thought (or maybe a dream).
-Candi
Monday, April 9, 2012
Our Daughter Knows
Our daughter has been told that I am a crossdresser. She had clues in the past that she knew, but never really put them all together. It was really me being lazy and forgetful that caused the "outing".
I washed my wig two days ago and it was on the styro-head to dry. I had it on the shelf in the closet. I told B about it, and then forgot all about it. Well B noticed it today while I was out. I had left the closet door open and it was in full view. She took care of it, but our daughter wanted to know why she closed the closet door when she was in there.
They went for a drive to Sonic and had a talk. She had noticed my shaven legs last week and saw my new pedicure a couple days ago. I guess I wanted to be caught. She knew I wore panties almost full time. B told her I was a crossdresser and that our anniversary was a full day "out". She was more shocked that I went out in public than that I was a crossdresser.
Luckily B took it in stride and our teenager hasn't freaked out on my. She is a good girl. I'm letting it all play out and see what she says. I'm not hiding my toes or legs. Waiting for her to make the next move. Only time will tell.
-Candi
I washed my wig two days ago and it was on the styro-head to dry. I had it on the shelf in the closet. I told B about it, and then forgot all about it. Well B noticed it today while I was out. I had left the closet door open and it was in full view. She took care of it, but our daughter wanted to know why she closed the closet door when she was in there.
They went for a drive to Sonic and had a talk. She had noticed my shaven legs last week and saw my new pedicure a couple days ago. I guess I wanted to be caught. She knew I wore panties almost full time. B told her I was a crossdresser and that our anniversary was a full day "out". She was more shocked that I went out in public than that I was a crossdresser.
Luckily B took it in stride and our teenager hasn't freaked out on my. She is a good girl. I'm letting it all play out and see what she says. I'm not hiding my toes or legs. Waiting for her to make the next move. Only time will tell.
-Candi
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